The early weeks after separation set the tone for everything that follows. You don't need to make big decisions straight away, but a few practical steps will make the rest far easier.
- Write down your date of separation. It matters for time limits and, later, for a divorce application. Note anything that marks it, such as moving rooms or telling family.
- Keep copies of key financial documents. Bank and super statements, tax returns, loan documents and anything showing what each of you brought to the relationship.
- Put the children's routine first. Agree on interim arrangements if you can, ideally in writing, and keep the children out of adult discussions.
- Be careful with money and property. Avoid selling, transferring or borrowing against shared assets without agreement. It can cause real problems later.
- Know the time limits. Property claims generally must start within 12 months of a divorce becoming final, or within two years of a de facto separation.